“Promise you will look for happiness, find happiness;
promise that you will move on, promise……………”
How many of us actually mean that? At least not me, I wouldn’t
want someone to move on so easily when I begin, to cease, to exist. I would
want them to be unable of envisioning a world without me. Most of us would want
that; hell, all of us would want that!
But why? What if they care, what if they don’t? What
difference will seven billion lit candles make?
You are dead, right?
So what should you care about when it comes to death?
Before that, let us properly analyze this full stop thing.
Is it being dead that you are afraid of? No, it is the dying part that
frightens you & me. Will it be painful, fast, slow, will I not know, will I
have time to plan, to exclude my horrible sibling from my will, will I have
time to do all that I have to? The answer to the last question is a no and that, I know for
sure. There is no bucket list in this world that has been completely ticked
off. But the important thing in life is that you persevere, to tick off as many
as you can in the little time that you do have.
So, don’t care about how many will be grief stricken when
you die; cause you never stick around long enough to find that out. So what
should you care about? Give yourself just one job to do: Find as much happiness
as you can for yourself and the people around you. Do that till your day comes
and then you will be able to stare death in its face and say, “meh, I had my
days J.”
As a wise person once told me” You need make a conscious effort
to be happy cause it’s your job, your job alone……………..”
It will never be enough but it can be good enough………………………
[P.S: the wise person is me & love you S.S ]
